Growing in Health and Wholeness is Not an Option in the ARC

During our ARC Midwest Gathering, speaker Lee Grady asked us, “Have you ever moved after twenty years or more, and in the process, pulled your refrigerator out? When you did, were you shocked when you saw all the gunk that was back there?” I have, and yes, there was a lot of gunk back there. And yes, I agree with Lee’s point that our lives can be like the gunk behind that refrigerator.

There can be old emotional pus wounds from the past that are influencing our present in unhelpful ways. There can be old defense mechanisms that once may have helped us survive but now need to be released. There may be strongholds, patterns of acting and reacting, that we run to when life gets stressful rather than running to Jesus. There may be unhelpful beliefs, even lies, which we have rationalized and justified with spiritual sounding language. Whatever it is, we need God’s transforming power to clean it out of our lives.

“Prayer will keep changing your life.” So said the words I read during my coffeetime with Jesus. Words penned by R.T. Kendall in his book, Did You Think to Pray?

“The Christian faith is the beginning not only of a relationship with God but also of an ongoing changing of your life. Paul calls it being changed from “glory to glory” (2 Cor 3:18, KJV) which means being transformed into Christ’s image “from one degree of glory to another” (ESV). I am seventy-two years old as I write, and I would blush to tell you how much changing I am still having to do. It is embarrassingly wonderful. My first reaction is, ‘Lord, why didn’t You show me this before?’ or ‘Lord, how could You keep loving me so much when You knew all the time what horrible faults I have?’

When I retired from Westminster Chapel in 2002 at the age of sixty-six, I was not prepared for how much I would learn about God and myself in what is supposed to be my ‘retirement’ years. We never stop learning, and we never stop growing” (Kendall, pg. 31).

I want to be like R.T. Kendall when I grow up. I want to be that humble, that vulnerable, that teachable, that mold-able before the Lord. If R.T. Kendall realizes he still has changing to do, how much more do I? How much more do you? However, will we be as courageous as R.T.? Will we dare to admit that we still have changing to do, seek out safe place relationships, and with those friends, intentionally cooperate with the Lord so He can heal us, free us, and transform us by the power of Holy Spirit?

In the ARC, growing in relational, emotional and spiritual health and wholeness is not an option, Beloved; it is a must. It is a must because the people we have been called to lead and serve will catch more from who we are than what we have to say or teach.

Keep growing in health and wholeness. Don’t stop, don’t settle for less. The more healthy and whole we become the more we will speak, think, act, and lead like Jesus.

God bless you as you invite the Lord to work in your hearts; and as you cooperate with Him that we might be transformed more and more into the image of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen!

Spending Time with God Will Help Us Know Him and His Ways

Prayer helps us to get to know the true God. Moses said to God, “If you are pleased with me, teach me Your ways” (Ex 33:13).

R.T. Kendall writes: “My wife knows my ways. She frequently knows whether I will like a particular film, TV program, book, or person. She often knows how I will answer most questions put to me. She knows my ways. The main reason Louise knows my ways is because of the time we have spent together. We know each other’s ways. When you spend time with a person, you get to know them” (Kendall, Did You Think To Pray, p. 29).

God wants you and me to know His ways (see Josh 22:5; Isaiah 55:8-9); not the world’s ways, not the latest marketing technique ways, not the latest church fad - His ways. God wants us to know His ways and in knowing His ways, make decisions and take action out of revelation from Him; and that revelation may or may not reflect the latest hot fad in the world or the body of Christ today. But moving out of His revelation will keep us in step with God and His purposes being accomplished in and through us by His might, His Spirit.

The world’s ways and the latest marketing techniques often seem to produce fruit quickly. But will it be fruit that lasts? Will it be fruit that pleases Father? Will it be fruit that brings glory to Him? The world’s ways and the latest marketing techniques often seem to bring glory to us more quickly than they do to Father. In the ARC, there is only one person we want the glory to go to and that’s the Lord. In the ARC there is only one person we want getting the acclaim and the credit to go to, and that’s the Lord. In the ARC we want to be bragging on only one person, and that’s the Lord!

So, brothers and sisters, let’s be intentional about making time to be with the Lord. Maybe that’s your (or my) growing edge this year. Maybe that’s where God wants to be working in our lives right now. Maybe that’s where He wants to be helping us to reorder our priorities and schedules. If so, I urge us all to cooperate with Him.

I love spending time with my wife, Debi. I don’t have to force myself to make time for her. May that be the way it is with us, and the Lord; may it not be something we have to do, but want, long, crave, desire, to do.

Holy Spirit come and do whatever You need to do in us so that spending time with you, Jesus, and Father is something we want, long, crave and desire to do this year. And Lord, if it is true that you look favorably on us, let us know your ways so we may understand you more fully and continue to enjoy your favor. We ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen!