Keep on Praying and Don't Lose Heart

I'm in Orange, CA, having my coffeetime with Jesus in the home of good friend, Tom Brashears. Though the coffee I made in a coffee maker with which I'm not familiar was rather weak, Jesus was not offended.

In addition to Scripture, I am reading Pete Grieg's book, God on Mute, these days. In it this morning, I read a passage that took me back to God's word, to the opening lines of chapter 18 in the gospel of Luke: "And he (Jesus) told them a parable to the effect that they ought always to pray and not lose heart."

Perhaps some of you, like me, are praying for family members or friends and have not yet seen the answers to our prayers. The words of Jesus and Grieg this morning encourage me to keep on praying. I hope they will encourage you to do the same. Grieg writes the following:

"Ultimately, it is the power of influence that shapes and changes lives. When we begin to see prayer-power as a model of relational influence within people's lives rather than an impersonal control-mechanism over them, we begin to sense the importance of perseverance in prayer and of allowing the Holy Spirit to guide the way we pray for a person or community over a protracted period of time.

Some of our prayers aren't yet answered because they are working gradually and not as an impersonal mechanism of forced control.

We can't change people's minds in prayer as if they were remote-control cars or computers waiting to be hacked. But maybe we can influence their circumstances so as to soften their hearts. In prayer, we appeal to the gentleness of Christ's nature as well as His power and engage with the complex free will of people He loves. That's why prayers for people generally work slowly, like water seeping silently into the tiny cracks of a vast boulder. For a long time, nothing may appear to have changed. Our prayers, resembling mere dribbles of water, appear to be of an entirely different nature than the substance of the rock. But then there comes the first great freeze of winter-some circumstance beyond human control-and overnight, as if by magic, as if struck by lightning, that vast boulder splits open.

In prayer, we may partner with God to influence a person's environment and experiences (and if the person's free will is already inclined toward God, our prayers will effect a change much more quickly than in those whose hearts are hard). However, we cannot make a person do anything that he or she doesn't want to do."